Parent & family resource center
Plan together. Let the student lead.
Clear conversations, flexible grade-level guidance and practical financial-aid explanations for families supporting a student’s next steps.
Support the student’s independence
Start by asking what help is welcome. Agree on a short, regular check-in, let the student lead appropriate decisions, and use official sources together when a requirement is unclear.
- Build a research list and verify program availability.
- Explore visits, testing plans and recommendation conversations.
- Draft a flexible application and financial-aid preparation timeline.
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A family conversation, before a college list
- What subjects, experiences, support and community help the student thrive?
- Which location, travel, housing and accessibility needs matter?
- What can the family sustainably contribute each year? Discuss this privately; published average net price is not a family’s actual offer.
- Which questions can the student research independently? Who can help with school records, official aid forms or unfamiliar terms?
- How will you compare options and revisit the budget after receiving actual offers?
Understand the price and the funding
Understand the five kinds of college costs
- Tuition & fees
- Instruction and required college fees; living costs are additional unless explicitly included.
- Attendance budget
- College charges plus estimated living, books, travel and other included expenses, before aid.
- Average annual cost after grants & scholarships
- A historical average after federal, state/local and college grant aid for a specified federal-aid population. Outside private scholarships are not automatically deducted; loans and work-study are not discounts.
- Your net cost
- Your entered attendance cost minus selected grants and scholarships. Loans and work-study remain funding sources.
- Borrowing
- Debt to repay, not a discount. Work-study is earned over time, not an upfront bill reduction.
- Tuition, cost of attendance and average net price
- Tuition is one component. Cost of attendance includes a defined set of billed and estimated expenses. Federal average net price describes a particular historical student population after specified grant aid; it is neither a quote nor a prediction of your award.
- Grants and scholarships
- Gift aid generally does not require repayment if its conditions are met. Check eligibility, renewal, enrollment conditions and how outside awards affect the school’s package.
- Loans and work-study
- Borrowing finances costs and creates debt; it does not reduce net cost after gift aid. Work-study is earned through work and is not automatically an upfront tuition discount.
Educational illustration only. No eligibility determination, aid-award prediction or financial advice.
Illustrative net cost after gift aid: $20,000 per year.
Cost after gift aid = total cost minus grants and scholarships, never below $0. Extra gift aid isn’t treated as a refund, and loans and work-study aren’t subtracted. This example isn’t saved.
Compare actual offers privately in the Aid Offer DecoderFAFSA, CSS Profile and official instructions
The FAFSA is the official federal student-aid application. The Student Aid Index is an index used in aid calculations, not a bill or guaranteed family payment. Some institutions also use CSS Profile for their own aid. Requirements and deadlines vary; verify the applicable aid year and each institution’s instructions before acting.
- Federal Student Aid · FAFSA (opens in a new tab)
- Federal Student Aid · Understanding SAI (opens in a new tab)
- College Board · About CSS Profile (opens in a new tab)
- Federal Student Aid · Types of aid (opens in a new tab)
Use official forms and secure official portals. Do not enter identity documents, account credentials or financial-aid identifiers into ICP.
A printable family checklist
- □ Agree on the student’s priorities and the support they want.
- □ Review official application cycles, deadlines and any binding Early Decision conditions.
- □ Plan school materials and recommendations with appropriate lead time.
- □ Check official scholarship sources, eligibility and renewal terms.
- □ Compare actual offers: billed costs, indirect expenses, gift aid, loans, work-study and remaining funding.
- □ Discuss four-year costs and conditions; do not assume aid renews unchanged.
- □ Before choosing: verify deposit terms, housing, accessibility and student support directly.
- □ After choosing: confirm official enrollment, final transcript, orientation, housing and aid steps.
- □ Download a copy of the student’s My ICP plan only with their permission, and keep it private.
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